
Connectedness: You Were Never Separate from the Divine Beloved
There’s a quiet ache that runs through so many of us — a longing to feel close to something greater.
We reach for it in prayer, meditation, nature, or stillness.
We call it God, Spirit, Love, the Universe, the Beloved.
But often, underneath that reaching, there’s a subtle belief we inherited — that we’ve somehow lost that connection.
That we are distant.
That something went wrong.
That we need saving.
For many of us raised around Christian ideas of sin, sacrifice, and separation, this belief lives deep in the bones. We’ve been told the story of a fall, a failure, and a long road home. We’ve been taught that God turned away — and that we must earn our way back through obedience, purity, or belief.
But what if none of that is true?
What if the One who made you never left?
What if the separation you’ve been trying to heal was only ever an illusion?
The Myth of Separation
The idea that humans are sinful and need salvation is one of the most powerful constructs in religious history. It’s also one of the most damaging — because it places unconditional love on conditional terms.
Sin-shame-separation is the story that says, You are not worthy as you are.
It makes connection to the Divine something to be restored instead of something to be remembered.
But look closer.
Even in the moments you’ve doubted, feared, or strayed, has Love ever truly left you?
When you felt held in a sunrise, comforted in your grief, guided through chaos — was that not Presence moving through you, quietly and without condition?
The truth is, you’ve never been disconnected from the Divine Beloved.
You’ve only been disconnected from the awareness of that connection.
The Story of Sacrifice
In many religious traditions, especially the Judeo-Christian one, the idea of separation from God is tied to sacrifice.
In ancient Hebrew law, a spotless lamb’s blood was believed to atone for wrongdoing and restore favor and relationship with the Divine.
Later, Christianity re-told that story through Jesus—the “Son of God,” offered as the final sacrifice so that humanity could be forgiven, accepted, and belong once and for all.
At its heart, this story speaks to humanity’s longing to feel worthy of love. But the cost built into it—the notion that blood must be spilled to make us whole—reveals just how deeply we’ve mistaken God’s nature for our own fear.
Love does not demand payment or sacrifice.
The Beloved never required a body or a sacrifice to stay in relationship with creation.
What needed redeeming was never our souls—it was our perception.
The separation was a misunderstanding, not a punishment.
The Divine was never withholding love or relationship; we were withholding awareness.
Remembering What’s Always Been There
Connectedness isn’t something you have to restore. It’s something you recognize.
It’s a shift from seeking to sensing.
When you stop trying to restore relationship and start noticing it, you begin to feel what’s always been true:
The One Who Made You is not somewhere “out there.”
That Presence lives and breathes through you — in your intuition, in your breath, in the simple pulse of being alive.
There is no veil to lift, no door to unlock, no test to pass. No sacrifice on your behalf to accept.
Only the soft returning of your awareness to what’s been holding you all along.
Living From Connection
When you start living from connectedness instead of separation, everything softens.
You stop seeing yourself as an unworthy being who was only found worthy because of God’s mercy.
You start communing with the Love that lives inside every cell of your being and always has.
You begin to see the Divine not as a judge, but as a companion — one who delights in your joy, grieves with your pain, and never withholds belonging.
From this place, prayer becomes conversation.
Work becomes service.
Every breath becomes worship.
You don’t need religion to feel connected to the sacred.
You just need presence.
And in that presence, you realize:
There was never anything to fix.
You were never broken.
You were never unworthy.
You were never separate.
You are — and have always been — part of the Beloved Whole.
💗 A Reflection to Take With You
Close your eyes.
Place your hand over your heart.
Whisper softly:
“I am one with the Love that made me. I was never apart.”
Notice what shifts.
Notice the peace that arises when belonging isn’t something you chase, but something you remember.
This is connectedness — not a bridge to believe in, but a truth to live.
You are already home.


